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Record #3992
Name :
: Constance Marjorie READER (1904 - 1991)
  aka : Connie


Father
:
Mother
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BMD and other details
Date of Birth
: 17 Apr 1904

Marriage (1)
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Marriage (2)
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Date of Death
: 1991
Abode (1) : Place of BirthEngland

Edmonton, Middlesex,
Abode (2) : Place of Death / BurialCanada, St Thomas
Sailing Information
Date of Arrival
: 29 Mar 1914
Country
: Canada

Ship
: Sicilian

Placement Family
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Homes / Agencys
Institution (GB)
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Agency
: Barnardos
NotesA birth registration was found for Connie Reader: Year of Registration: 1904; Quarter of Registration: Apr-May-Jun; District: Edmonton; County: Essex, Hertfordshire, Middlesex; Volume: 3a; Page: 563. (Parents: Elisha Reader (1867-1905) and Julia Helouisa Haykins (1867-1912); siblings: Lillian Reader (Boyd); Ethel Reader; Hilda Reader; William Reader; Julia Reader; Beatrice Mabel Reader; and Stanley Reader.)

In 1914, Constance Reader, 9, arrived at St. John, New Brunswick, Canada, along with a group of 98 Barnardo girls en route to Peterborough, Ontario, Canada.

From her granddaughter, Sue Thomson on information received from Barnardos:

It would appear that one sister attempted to contact [Connie] through Barnardos in 1919 ([Connie] went into Care in 1913 and was shipped to Canada in 1914). There was correspondence on her file from her requesting that she not be contacted by Barnardos as she did not wish her husband or her husbands family to know that she was a Barnardo's girl. There is correspondence in 1966 from a neice, living in Perth Western Australia attempting to trace her and her brother Stanley. Stanley also went into care in Sept of 1913 but not with Barnardos with Arethusa in England. According to correspondence in my grandmother's file he remained in care there until 1917 and then basically disappeared. But the most interesting and heartwringing document was a letter from [Connie] to Mrs Hall, her niece, in response to a Barnardos inquiry requesting information about her sister and other brothers and sisters she might have. This letter was written on November 1, 1966 and requested any information on any living relatives. My grandmother thought she had NONE. Barnardos did not tell her that she had 5 sisters and 2 brothers even though they had all their names and addresses as of 1914. My grandmother died in 1991 never knowing that she had all these relatives. She only knew of her sister Beatrice Mabel and her brother Stanley and this information came from her niece in 1966. She and Mabel were never able to meet again before their deaths. Her niece Mrs Josephine Hall is now believed to be living in the US. Since I decided to pursue this information I often wondered if [Connie] would approve or disapprove of this quest. Having read this single letter I know now that this knowledge was very important to her.

Education, particularly for women, was so important to her. She liked to keep track of her children and grandchildren. She had a little tobacco tin of money that she saved and kept under her mattress and to those who went on to school she would dip into the box to help pay tuition costs. She raised 9 children of her own and 3 of other peoples who had fallen through the cracks. The money in the tobacco tin came from laundry that she took in "in her spare time". She dipped into that box every September for 4 years to help me with my education. She passed away 11 years ago but I feel like she has been with me every step of the way. That little tobacco tin had enough money in it to pay for her funeral. Connie Marjorie Reader was independent to the last day of her life.

Connie Reader requested for a change in placement in 1922. At about the same time, there was a letter from the last placement complaining when she ran away that her employer no longer had any help. The employer paid Barnardos the balance of her salary, $3.00, and stated that she hoped that Connie would make good on it. This woman requested another girl immediately and was in fact told she would have to go on a lengthy waiting list.

Constance / Connie married in 1923 in Ontario and died in St Thomas, Ontario, Canada, in 1991. 
ContributorsCreated : 2008-08-07 20:10:14 / From original database


Last Updated : 2009-02-01 11:03:27 /

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3004 AARON, Alfred Robert1899ENG, LAN, West Derby, Liverpool Mar 1911 : Sicilian CAN Barnardos  
3003 AARON, John Richard1895ENG, LAN, West Derby, Liverpool Mar 1911 : Sicilian CAN Barnardos  
3007 ABBEY, Bertha1890ENG, DUR, Stockton on Tees Jul 1904 : Southwark CAN Barnardos  
3006 ABBEY, John1887ENG, DUR, Stockton on Tees Oct 1904 : Southwark CAN Barnardos  
3161 ABBEY, Thomas1892ENG, DUR, Stockton on Tees Oct 1904 : Southwark CAN Barnardos  
3020 ABBOT, Alice1877ENG, MDX, Islington Oct 1893 : Labrador CAN Barnardos  
3047 ABBOT, William1878ENG,     Apr 1895 : Parisian CAN Barnardos  
3019 ABBOTT, Alfred1869ENG,     Aug 1887 : Parisian CAN Barnardos  
23669 ABBOTT, Alice1877ENG,     Oct 1893 : Labrador CAN Barnardos  
3022 ABBOTT, Bertie1894ENG, SFK, Ipswich May 1909 : Corsican CAN Barnardos sharonmx5 , patty_in_ms  
3025 ABBOTT, David Henry1891ENG, ESS, Grays Mar 1901 : Tunisian CAN Barnardos  
3055 ABBOTT, Douglas Groves1910ENG, HAM, Hartley Wintney Apr 1924 : Montclare CAN Barnardos  
3858 ABBOTT, Emily Jane1886ENG, YKS, Guisborough Jul 1903 : Dominion CAN Barnardos  
8354 ABBOTT, Frederick Albert Prosper1885ENG, LND, Homerton Apr 1895 : Parisian CAN Barnardos  
3036 ABBOTT, George1894ENG, MDX, London Jul 1904 : Southwark CAN Barnardos  
3038 ABBOTT, Herman Henry1882ENG, MDX, Hoxton, London Apr 1895 : Parisian CAN Barnardos  
10624 ABBOTT, John1913ENG,     Apr 1929 : Duchess of York CAN Barnardos  
3045 ABBOTT, Leslie1883ENG,     Mar 1893 : Labrador CAN Barnardos  
3060 ABBOTT, Lilian1903ENG,     Jun 1912 : Tunisian CAN Barnardos  
3026 ABBOTT, Mary1888ENG, ESS, Maldon Oct 1902 : Colonian CAN Barnardos  
3049 ABBOTT, Penelope1901ENG, KEN, Sidcup Jun 1912 : Tunisian CAN Barnardos  
5046 ABBS, Bertie Cecil John1914ENG, LND, St. Pancras Mar 1930 : Duchess of Richmond CAN Barnardos  
3061 ABDALE, John George1873ENG, NBL, Newcastle Upon Tyne Mar 1891 : Norwegian CAN Barnardos  
3063 ABEL, Albert Edward G.1901ENG, ESS, West Ham Aug 1910 : Tunisian CAN Barnardos  
3066 ABEL, Charles1891ENG,     Mar 1906 : Dominion CAN Barnardos  
3065 ABEL, Florence1902ENG, ESS, West Ham Aug 1910 : Tunisian CAN Barnardos  
3067 ABEL, Frederick1889ENG,     Jul 1900 : Tunisian CAN Barnardos  
3068 ABEL, George1887ENG,     Aug 1905 : Dominion CAN Barnardos  
3069 ABEL, George1897ENG,     Mar 1907 : Dominion CAN Barnardos  
3071 ABEL, John1886ENG,     Jun 1897 : Labrador CAN Barnardos  
IDNameDOBPlace of birthArrivals & ShipsDest.AgencyFamily links
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